I have seen that in us Pakhtuns we find it hard to express our emotions(and by that i mean mostly affection).When a child grows up he thinks he is cleverer than his dad and now he is in position and somehow have the right to shout at his mother.To all of you who thinks its ok to shout at your mother or think you are old enough that you don't need your parents you are a loser. if you want to be "big" go and tell you mother you love her show her a tiny percentage of love she has for you before its too late.
I have also noticed the way Pukhtuns in particular treat their wives.people think its okay to shout at your wife knowing she can't shout back or even hit her.If you do that you are the most coward person on earth and are ofcourse a loser.If you wanna fight , fight your ego which is bigger than you and see if you can beat that.Not a poor woman who is tolerant and maybe weaker.
And you are the biggest loser if you abuse the poor as if he has no dignity.He was born with the same eyes and legs as you are so who gave you the right to think of him inferior just because your dad have more money.
DON'T BE A LOSER RESPECT THOSE WHO ARE NOT AS STRONG AS YOU IN ANY WAY OR FORM.GO HUG YOUR MOTHER, HELP YOUR DAD ,BUY A GIFT FOR YOUR WIFE (ALL WHICH WE HAVE FORGOT TO DO) AND SIT WITH THE POOR WHO YOU HAVE ALWAYS TOOK FOR GRANTED AND HAVE A MEAL WITH HIM.
p.s. I am not excluded of this we are all in it in one way or other lets make up for this.